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Got Blog?

In 1999 I asked my friends and colleagues if they blogged. The responses I received ranged from odd looks to questions about the blogging practice. The end results of my findings was "Blog" was a new term and not highly recognized. That was then, a half million blog users ago.

Blogs have become and I do believe will continue into their sight of greatness for sometime, until a new technology slides into place. For the time being, blogs are a great way to define who you are to your visitors and provide dynamic content that the search engines go nuts over.

Clogged email boxes and spam eaters have taken a dramatic action on the once powerful email marketing tool. As email marketing loses its effect, marketers and small businesses are seeking ways to fulfill this lost art of communication between staff and customers. Blogging could be that much needed answer for you.

SO what is a blog?

Blogs are a time and date stamped, easy to search, web based journal or self publishing tool. Blogs can have a corporate style, but in most cases are written by one person in a relaxed, candid atmosphere. True personality usually shines thread in the opinions of the blog writer. You do not have to be a writer to produce a blog. Even so, many blogs owners become recognized as small journalists, as the writer speaks their mind or offers self analyzed materials on their preferred subject matters.

You may think at this point, that a blog does not sound like a business tool.

Let's take blogging into a business approach and see how we can benefit.


Many marketing methods and advertising spiels fall on blind eyes and deaf ears across the net today with such a medium we have created where advertising is abundant and often shoved at us in every direction.


Visitors will come to your blog of theirs free to read your newest content of choice, giving you a higher ratio of targeted visits.


Email marketing is losing ground. Overflowing email inboxes and spam filters that do not deliver your ezine.


Using your blog as a web based area for your product and service announcements and updates. When someone subscribes to your blog or RSS feed, they will receive automatic updates that include the headline, summary and URL of your new entries.


Email gets deleted … Blogs get indexed in search engines!


Internet marketing can be a nonpersonal medium, gaining trust becomes increasing harder and more important to gain new customers.


Blogging can give your visitors, existing and potential customers a great area to gain insight about the face you present to the world. If you're a small business owner to a large corporate business, you can benefit by giving your company or web site personality via blog.

Now let's take a look at blogs from another angle. Rss and / or live feed. You may be thinking, do I Really Need to Know About Rss?

Yes, but we are not going to give a full history of RSS here. What you need to know is that RSS is the "code" that underlies a blog. It includes a headline, a short summary of the entry and the URL of the page that the new story has been posted to. In order for users to subscribe to RSS feeds they will need to download a news aggregator. There are many available for free, we recommend NewsGator for its ease of use within Microsoft Outlook.

Visitors and other websites can syndicate your RSS feeds to their desktop, their email, newsreaders and on their own websites. Talk about getting the word around! Submitting your RSS feed, can get you listed in hundreds of new emerging RSS feed directories. Of course this will bring traffic to see what your feed is about to those looking to syndicate them to their own sites or readers. Also creating more links pointing to your site.

Let me touch on one of the most important features of a blog. Search engines love them. Most bots including Google will visit and reindex blog pages daily. Yahoo will index your RSS free and quickly.

There are many ways and places you can begin your blogging journey. You should first decide if you want to house the blog on your site or let other sites manage your blog system. For this we recommend , now owned by Google. The Google toolbar has a one click Blog This button that can make blogging quick and painless. You can set the blog files to ftp to your host for you so that your files are housed on your server. There are many blog services online today, and there are many free and low cost scripts that you can easily run your own blog from your site without the need of any other service provider.

If you would like to find out more about blogs and blog services we invite you to visit our resource section at .

We hope to provide many learning materials and resources for the online promoter using blogs and rss feeds for the online advertising medium.

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Quitting Smoking – You Pull Your Pants On One Leg At A Time, Don’t You?

Having helped over 2,000 to quit smoking I believe I have heard every possible reason for not being able to quit.

My response to these excuses, which are keeping people trapped, is often very similar.

“What is special about you?” If people all around the world are quitting smoking what is so special about you that prevents you from quitting.

Most people have stress in their lives, most feel bored at times and everyone likes to relax at the end of a busy day.

So what makes you so different from the millions who don’t need a cigarette to do it?

You pull on your pants one leg at a time just like everyone else with two legs! “But you don’t understand I’m having a tough time in my life”

I see smokers in Brisbane Australia, which means none of them live in a war zone, or a refugee camp or are walking several kilometers each day to find water.

Yes they may have stress, or tragedy in their lives, they may hate their jobs or argue with their spouses or children, but none of these things are uncommon, yet 80% of adults don’t need a cigarette to manage how they feel.

I challenge you to stop and think when a cigarette really helped you. I mean really helped, not just distracted you for a few minutes, but solved a problem, or made you feel better, or resolved a conflict.

We both know the answer is never. And that’s not surprising. Nowhere in history has a drug ever solved anything, because it all just keeps on running in the background.

The only thing that smoking has ever achieved is adding more problems to the lives of those sucking in the fumes. Financial, health and the social costs are huge. I’m sure I don’t have to tell you.

So what about you, what do think about smoking, and how well do your excuses stand up to scrutiny. Imagine a stranger hearing your reasons for smoking, do you think they would agree with you or maybe think you were deluding yourself!

Of course all humans are masters of self-delusion, and some of these delusions are easier to see than others. At least when you stand by the bin in the street away from the cafes with strangers who are also smoking you can share in a common delusion about your need to keep smoking.

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Why Investing In SEO Is A Smart Choice For Business People

Google continues to upgrade its algorithm everywhere, which is making the companies spending more on digital marketing services. The marketing models unhinge everywhere and considering investing in SEO is a smarter choice. Some people find it hard as they are tight on budget still SEO firms are meant to bring a lot of value to your business so considering them for your budget is even better. With this, you can take the plunge better and the overall growth of the SEO marketing will go up by the upcoming years. If you are considering hiring an SEO company for your business, it is important to understand what you are buying.

SEO Work Falls Into Mainly Three Buckets, Which Are As Follows:-

  • Keyword Research And Optimization – This is the first step of SEO and most people think it is the only part. However searching for the optimum keywords is just a beginning to define the audience how they can reach your business through the online mediums. The strategic equation of keyword research is presented with the optimal phrases for which people search specific term that a company shows in the search results. Afterwards, the searchers click your link and you meet the new prospects.

  • Technical Work On Website – This is not actually associated with SEO but it is essential to link up the workings for the Google’s algorithm. The strategy that Google uses to access and rate all the websites is hard to match and it has to work extremely faster. For meeting the people with the relevant strategies you are offering, you need to work like a well-oiled machine to communicate quickly and clearly. This needs hundreds of technical considerations, which inversely links with SEO and optimizes your website for the purpose.

  • Link Building Campaigns – If you are new to the game, this might surprise you but trust us it’s surely a game changer. In spite of hundreds of technical tweaks for a well optimized website, Google’s algorithm rise above the all with the certainty called links. A web of links from other websites to yours, are what Google counts and care about than literally anything else. If your business website is linked with other popular websites, Google is likely to display your company much higher in the search engine results.

Letting The Experts Do Their Work For You Pays More Itself, And Here Are The Several Reasons For The Same:-

  • They work systematically
  • They are always up with fresh perspective
  • They have access to the favorite toolbox
  • Patience is the key rather of guarantees

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How to Make Money Online During the Recession

Although we are previously confronted with what is generally thought to be the worst recession since the 1930s, the world of e-commerce continues to grow, showing few sign of peaking anytime soon. In an effort to get the most bang for the buck, savvy businesses and marketers are moving traditional ad spend dollars online in ever-increasing numbers.

This growth has not come without a price. Newspapers and periodicals across the country and around the world continue to fail at an alarming rate as readers (following by representative ad dollars) continue to move to the Net.

Web 2.0 technologies present new opportunities and hazards

In an effort to make the most of this trend, thousands of astute Web surfers are actively learning to leverage Web 2.0 technologies in order to make money online during the economic downturn.

Just as sure as there are many eager to learn this nascent trade, so too is it certain that unscrupulous businesses and marketers will look to take advantage of these "e-newbies" with promises of licenses from programs that "do all the work, while You need only sit back and count the cash. " As we have heard too many times before, "if it sounds too good to be true …"

Most online marketers fail

The simple truth is that most surfers with little-to-no marketing experience who turn to e-commerce as an income source fail. However, it is important to note that failure is no less certain for those who try to make it on their own, than those that fall victim to scammers.

I will elaborate.

There is no better place to start a business than the Web

Despite the fact that most online business ventures fail, the potential for approaching vast sums of money quickly is far greater online than off. The Web provides heretofore unforeseen opportunities to anyone with access to a pc and an internet connection. To boil it down to a single factor-the Internet provides potential access to a virtual unlimited consumer base for a tiny fraction of the cost required to reach those same consumers via traditional marketing methods. Those that understand this concept and implement an effective plan to take advantage of it become wealthy.

Brilliant Internet concepts and the riches that follow are not necessarily the fruits of experience

One favorite example of high concept is "The Million Dollar Homepage." This stroke of genius plan was hatched in August, 2005 by a young Englishman, Alex Tew, who needed a way to pay for university. In short, he decreed that he would put up a Web page and sell space by the pixel (at $ 1.00 per pixel) to advertisers. He earned his million without spending a dime on advertising as Web surfers from around the world visited "The Million Dollar Homepage" just to see for themselves if it actually existed and what such a page would look like.

Of course, such high-concept sites are the exception and not the norm. People have made fortunes small and large with far more mundane ideas.

How much is one "dumb" idea worth?

In 1999 a shopper in San Francisco went in search of a certain type of shoe in a specific size and color. He left the mall tired, frustrated, and empty-handed. Back at home he decreed that the task could be better handled online. His only problem was that there was no major online shoe retailer to buy from. That day, Nick Swinmurn founded "Who would be dumb enough to buy shoes online-without even trying them on?" People asked. Hundreds of thousands of customers and millions of dollars later, Nick had his answer-almost everyone. Since the recessionary woes faced by most retailers, Zappos did more than $ 1 billion dollars in sales last year.

Alex Tew's and Nick Swinmurn's dreams really only had one thing in common, the fact that they would not have been possible without the Internet and its low-cost access to millions of consumers worldwide.

OK, OK, I get it. But what's in it for me?

We're glad you asked, and the answer is, almost anything you want -if you are willing to learn the skills required.

While the internet continues to have many success stories, it has many more failure stories, and those remain mostly unheard. There are thousands of budding entrepreneurs who may have had a good idea, but did not know how to effectively market it. Or, sometimes they were top-notch marketers, but had no idea on how to deliver the product cost-effectively. Or because they just lacked the fortress or the dollars to stick it out.

Please, no more stories; Just get to the point. I have things to do.

While the editors at Top 5 Online Jobs rarely agree about much, we are essentially unanimous in the opinion that most budding online entrepreneurs fail because they are generally undercapitalized and too easily discouraged by the almost inevitable initial failures. Far too often they quit just before reaching the "tipping point" -that magical moment when the idea begins to realize a profit.

From the mouths of hucksters …

If you are old enough to remember get-rich-quick king of "tiny classified ads" infomercials, Don Lapre, you might recall this pitch:

"If you can create and test one tiny classified ad in the newspaper that makes just $ 30- $ 40 profit in a week, it could make you a fortune, because the secret is learning how to take that one tiny classified ad that just made $ 30- $ 40 profit in a week and to realize that you can now take that same exact ad and place it in up to 3,000 other news around the country … "

You can almost smell the hair gel.

Since Don's reportedly questionable business practices which made him subject of many a Better Business Bureau complaint, his thesis was correct. If nothing else, Don understood that the concept of scaling could have been used in marketing to multiply a campaign that shows a small but consistent profit into a small (or even large) fortune.

Today's Web is a Don Lapre dream come true-potential access to a virtual unlimited number of eager consumers-if you can figure out how to reach them cost effectively. And while the ROI on successful Internet campaigns is difficult to match in the offline world, the web is also a place rife with costly and frustrating hazards that chew up and spit out budding online entrepreneurs with clock-like regularity.

How shall I begin?

The very first thing is to decide what type of an entrepreneur you are or would like to be:

1. The Fiercely Independent Entrepreneur
This person is a strong-murdered, highly motivated, self-starter. This sometimes egotistical entrepreneur would rather succeed or fail on their own terms rather than follow in someone else's footsteps. This is a high-risk, high reward approach and not for someone who is easily dissuaded by initial failures. This entrepreneur's Achilles' heel is the tendency to enjoy the hunt more than the fear. However, this entrepreneurial type is far more likely to launch the next Million Dollar Homepage, Zappos or Twitter.

2. The Template Entrepreneur
While also a highly motivated, self-starter, the template entrepreneur allows others to blaze the trail and follows only when they feel confident that the successes of the trailblazer can be achieved without suffering through the same mistakes. To this person the bottom line is the destination, not the journey. They generally prefer fast nickels to slow dimes, are willing to utilize the advice of experts, and are less likely to lose interest in a project once they have achieved success. It is of course far easier to navigate a path that has already been cleared, but the downside to this approach is that if they wait too long, it may be difficult to emulate the pioneer's results due to the inevitable increase in competition. And while this entrepreneur is less likely to launch the next Facebook, they are also more likely to turn a profit.

What do I sell online?

Here's where you have to make another big decision – should you begin by marketing your own product / service and keep 100% of the profits, or marketing someone else's product / service and keep a percentage of the profits?

For people new to the world of e-commerce, we would suggest that you begin by selling someone else's product or service. Consider selling your own only after you have demonstrated a thorough understanding of Internet marketing techniques and achieved a satisfactory level of online success.

Affiliate Marketing

Many Internet marketers begin with affiliate marketing-the practice of advertising someone else's product or service in exchange for a commission for each sale returned.

The methods utilized most often by affiliate marketers include PPC (pay-per-click) marketing, posting links on your own search-engine-optimized, content-related website or blog, banner advertising, and e-mail / e-newsletter marketing. There are of course, other "outside-of-the-box" methods used by savvy "super-affiliates," but these are rarely disclosed freely, as the key to successful affiliate marketing is referring traffic to the seller at the lowest possible cost .

For example, if you were to purchase 1000 clicks from Google by using their AdWords program and you paid $ 0.50 for each click, and 1% of the clicks resolved in sales, and each sale yielded a $ 10.00 commission; You would produce 10 sales and lose $ 400.00. Ouch.

Commission ($ 100) minus Cost ($ 500) equals Profit / Loss (- $ 400)

However, if you paid $ 0.05 for each click, assuming the same 1% conversion rate, you would profit $ 5.00 for each sale-a very healthy ROI (return on investment) of 100%.

Commission ($ 100) minus Cost ($ 50) equals Profit / Loss ($ 50)

Scaling Marketing Campaigns (the "Don Lapre Method") to Maximize Profits

Using the same parameters, an investment of $ 500 in AdWords clicks would return your $ 500 investment plus an additional $ 500 profit.

Commission ($ 1000) minus Cost ($ 500) equals Profit / Loss ($ 500)

Rather than be satisfied with a $ 500 profit on a $ 500 investment, once convinced that the results could be repeated with a reasonable degree of consistency, a savvy internet marketer would reinvest profits in increasingly larger amounts. If successful, the marketer would become wealthy in short order.

A Little Online Marketing Perspective

While you do not run into campaigns with 100% ROI on a daily basis, they certainly exist, and they have and will continue to make Internet millionaires of many. If we were to think of such a campaign as a machine into which you could put a single dollar and have it spit out two dollars a few days later, what machine should be worth? What would you be willing to pay for the plans to build such a machine?

But you do not need 100% ROI to make a very good living as an affiliate marketer working only a few hours per day from home. A fairly consistent ROI of 50% would be enough to allow you to quit your day job in reliably short order. All you really need are the plans to create your own ROI machine.

Building Plans for Sale

While some "super-affiliates" will take their methods to the grave, there are others that are willing to part with them-for a price. The trick is of course, to get the best possible "plans" at the lowest possible cost. All plans are not created equal.

It is our recommendation that persons new to Internet marketing seek out the mentoring of someone who has already become wealthy by creating high ROI affiliate campaigns (not by selling online courses). Contact this person and offer to work as an apprentice for an hour or two per day to learn the methods used to create and implement high ROI affiliate campaigns. Or simply ask them what they would charge for weekly phone consultation. Or if they give seminars or webinars, begin by attending one. Or if they offer a class, take it. Or if they offer an online course, buy it. Keep in mind that doing so will likely save you the time and cost of many of the initial failures encountered by most if not all Internet marketers.

If you find the right mentor and truly heed their advice, it would probably be difficult not to at least approach their level of success.

Finally: A Word about Work from Home / Online Job Scams

While there are certainly more than enough online scams to go around, it is amusing to hear programs created by some of today's top online marketers referred to as scams. To keep a bit of perspective it might be helpful to note that a college education generally costs tens of thousands of dollars. Somehow graduates who find themselves among the unemployed rarely refer to their degrees as scams. Yet, when someone takes an online course and fails to produce a profit within 30 days, the word "scam" is thrown around freely. We would suggest that students of online courses also examine their own efforts before referring to anything that has been proven to work for others as a scam. The price of a book is never a guarantee of the knowledge within.

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About Acapulco

Mexico’s first great resort destination, Acapulco is a stunningly beautiful city located around a bay on the Pacific Ocean, with miles of easily-accessible beaches. It’s truly in the tropics, with palm trees and other exotic plants everywhere. Views across the bay are gorgeous, the sunsets are legendary, and the city lights at night are lovely from every vantage point.

What to do? Swimming (but note that some beaches have rough surf and undertows), working on your tan, eating and drinking at the wide variety of restaurants and clubs… and staying up late (or all night) to go dancing at the discos. Scuba diving, fishing, boating, and other water sports are available, as are golf courses and tennis courts. The shopping is great fun, though don’t expect the best bargains in Mexico in this tourist-oriented city. Famous divers jump off extremely high cliffs into the sea at La Quebrada… that’s something to watch, not to do! Most of all, Acapulco is a place to relax.

I’ve been to Acapulco both as a child and as an adult. Of course, the city has changed a lot; the quaint little motel just a block from the beach where we stayed when I was a kid is long gone, replaced with newer, taller buildings.

I adored the city as a child, and I continue to like its natural beauty and its beaches. Though it is now a huge city and very tourist-oriented, I still think Acapulco is an outstanding place for a beach vacation. The glittering celebrities are more likely to go to the newer resorts — Cancun and others that were small towns or fishing ports when Acapulco was the rising star.

If you explore the central market and other places away from the obvious main tourist areas, you can get a real connection with the people. Many of the tourists nowadays are Mexican, and you can chat with them on the beach. Don’t speak Spanish? No problem! Smiles go a long way, and many Mexicans know some English.

The weather in Acapulco is very nice all winter, hot and humid in the summer. Good thing the beach is there!

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Infertility: Pelvic Pain and Endometriosis

When it comes to fertility, pelvic pain is usually associated with the menstrual cycle. Most women experience a painful sensation in their pelvic area before menstruation starts, while there are a few women who experience little or no pain. It is important to note if there is a distinction in the pelvic pain that you experience.

If you are familiar with the pain caused before or during your menstrual cycle then it may cover up another symptom that is causing the pain. In other words, if you notice that the pain you feel is stronger than usual or is not in the same area, it will be advisable to seek the opinion of a gynaecologist. Also take note of when the pain occurs. Although it may feel like the usual period pain, if it occurs throughout the month and not necessarily when you are due to have your menstruation, then something else could be wrong.

With endometriosis, pelvic pain is a common symptom. Pain may be felt before, during or after menstruation. It could also be felt during ovulation or in the bowel during menstruation. It’s possible to feel pain when passing urine, during or after sexual intercourse or in the lower back region.

There are also other symptoms associated with endometriosis which include diarrhoea, constipation, or abdominal bloating that are all connected with menstruation. Heavy or irregular bleeding is another symptom as well as fatigue. Another well-known symptom of endometriosis is infertility. An estimated 30% to 40% of women with endometriosis are considered to be sub-fertile. It is important to note that you need to consult with a gynaecologist or fertility doctor to assess what your symptoms represent. Endometriosis causes infertility by means of distorted adnexal anatomy that prevents the ovum capture after ovulation. It also interferes with the oocyte development or early embryogenesis. It can also result in reduced endometrial receptivity.

In certain cases there are no or few symptoms associated with this disease however it has decreased pregnancy rates despite little visible organ damage. In general, endometriosis lesions can be found anywhere in the pelvic cavity. It could be on the ovaries, on the fallopian tubes or on the pelvic sidewall. In other cases, it could be found on the uterosacral ligaments, on the cul-de-sac, in the pouch of Douglas or in the rectal vaginal septum. If you are concerned about any pelvic pain that you may be experiencing, you will need to visit a gynaecologist for a pelvic examination.

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The Power of Words

If sign language is the best way to communicate with your prospects and customers, you’d need to learn sign language. If a unique code system is the best way to communicate, you’d need to learn the code system. Luckily, our communication process is simpler – or is it?

If you meet your prospects face-to-face, you can customize your sales pitch based on the physical signs your prospect gives you. Facial expressions and body language can tell you if you’re going in the right direction.

If you meet your prospects over the phone, you’ll have less to work with. Your sales pitch will depend on verbal queues. You’ll hear your prospect’s words and the tone of their voice.

Copywriters don’t have either of these advantages when communicating with prospects. Our only communication is written words. How you communicate with written words is the key to successful copywriting online and offline. Make your words convincing and powerful.


Getting someone to read your sales pitch depends on your headline. Your headline is your introduction, so chose your words carefully. If your headline doesn’t grab your prospect’s attention in two seconds, you’ve lost your opportunity to communicate with them.


Sub-headings are another important part of your message. Your sub-headings should keep your prospects interested. Your prospect will scan your message before they decide if they’re going to read more.


Your words should really shine in your body copy. Use words to describe and explain the key benefits and features of your product or service.

Use sensory words in your copy. Sensory words describe how we experience the world. We touch, see, smell, taste, and listen every day, so we trust our senses. Words like “bright”, “fluffy”, “tingly”, “squeaky”, and “zesty” are sensory words. Sensory words are more descriptive than bland words like “nice”, “good”, and “bad.”

If you combine sensory words with emotional trigger words, you can create powerful copy. Words like “you”, “because”, and “imagine” are emotional trigger words.

The words you use are important. A single word can make or break your message, so don’t underestimate the power of words.

“He who wants to persuade should put his trust not in the right argument, but in the right word.” – Joseph Conrad

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Rice Milling and Processing

During the rice milling stage, rice grains move through a multifarious process. It's ushered through a number of sorting machines, wherein the grains are sufficiently processed.

Why is milling important?

Since rice is not fit for human consumption in its raw form, ie paddy, the need for processing arises. As such, milling is a crucible post-production step which single-most important objective is to obtain it in its edit form, free from impurities.

Ideally, rice milling involves the removal of husk and bran to produce an edible white rice kernel that is not only sufficient milled but is edible too.

As per the customer requirement, processed rice should have a certain minimum number of broken kernels. Let's take a closer look at rice kernel composition:

Typically, rice varieties are composed of about 11% bran layers, 20% rice hull / husk and 69% starchy endosperm, which is also referred to as total milled rice.

With varying durations, there are roughly 3 different processes involved in the milling, both a single step process, two-step process and a multi-stage process.

Single Step Milling: Under this process the husk and bran layers are removed in a single go.

Two-step Milling: Bran and husk are removed separately in two different settings.

Multi-stage Milling: Under this process, paddy is ushered through a number of different processes. The objective of this process is to reduce mechanical stress and prevent heat buildup within the grain. This ensures that there is no grain breakage and uniformly polished grains are produced.

The different steps involved in the process of multi-stage rice commercial milling are:
1. Paddy Pre-cleaning: This process essentially removes undesirable foreign materials such as unfilled and uneven grains, impurities, sand, straw, clay, etc. Rice is passed through a series of aspiration systems and sieves.

2. Paddy De-stoning: Se-stoning is the process of separating rice grains from stones. This process works on the principle of gravity wherein the rice, being lighter stones, fluidizes into air gradient, leaving behind the heavier stones.

3. Paddy De-husking / dehulling: Based on centrifugal principle, dehusker machine removes the husk layer from paddy.

4. Paddy separation: As compared to a paddy, the surface of rice is smoother. This difference in texture is used to separate brown rice from paddy.

5. Rice Whitening: Rice whitening is the removal of bran and germs from brown rice through an efficient aspiration system

6. Rice Polishing: This step involves the removal of the remaining bran particles and then polishing the exterior of kernel by a humidified rice polisher.

7. Rice Length Grading: During this process, the broken rice is removed from the whole rice, and small and large head brokers are separated from the head rice.

8. Rice Blending: In this process, head rice is combined with predetermined amount of brokers, as per customers' requirements.

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Teen Relationships

Before I start to talk about teen relationships I feel I have to make a clarification. Many people when they think of the word relationship, automatically equate it to love or sexual relationship. According to the general definition of relationship this is any connection between two or more elements and these elements can be anything from chemical substances to human beings. So from this definition it is simple to deduct the meaning of this word applied to human beings. A teen relationship can be any kind of relationship

  1. between teens of the same gender
  2. between teens of the opposite gender, like boyfriend girlfriend relationships
  3. between teens and other persons of the same or different gender and different age.

The quality of these relationships can also vary, but there are two kinds of teenager relationships I’m going to talk about here;

  • teen friendships and
  • teen love relationships

Teen Friendships

This kind of teenager relationship will fit into all three categories above. It can exist between a teenager and other persons of same or different gender and age. A good friend – no matter age or gender – is one of the best things you can have on this earth. A really good friend that is special to you and means much to you. A person that is always there for you.

Many successful love relationships has started with friendship and this is probably the reason for it’s success. The better you know the other person, the better you’ll go along with him or her and in a long lasting love relationship – as man and woman – your appreciation of your partner as a friend will mean much more than anything else. If we look at it from the other end, it seems much more difficult to build a friendship from a love or sexual relationship. In fact, I have not heard about it, maybe you have but the point is that a good friendship is always good to have both as a basis of a future love relationship and as a friendship by itself.

A teenage friendship can exist between anyone no matter what gender, age, race, background or whatever. A 13 year old girl and a 50 year old man can have a great and even lifelong friendship together as well as two teenagers of the same gender.

Teen love relationships

While you can talk quite frankly and straight forward in a friendship most of us are more aware of not hurting the partner in a love relationship. This can evolve to a degree of lies and even no communication at all just to protect your partner.

There are also more mutual expectations in a love relationship and more intimate emotions are involved than in a good friendship. A teen love relationship can be great and long lasting but if there is no basis of friendship in it the probability of sustaining it is significantly lower. There are some legally defined limitations with regards to who can go into a teen love or sexual relationship. It is illegal for people of 18 years and above to have a sexual relation to a minor but It is definitely not illegal to have older friends.

A good friendship is one of the best gifts God has provided our lives with and even if you marry the sweetest boy or girl in the world, neither of you will be happy if you aren’t good friends.

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A Male Chastity Guide For Modern Couples

Hi. My name is Mistress Sara, and I am the author of Beautiful Enslavement, a comprehensive male chastity guide for modern couples. Over the years I’ve helped dozens of couples incorporate male chastity and male chastity belt devices into their marriage. I’ve done so because this lifestyle has proven to be the right choice for most couples – particularly if they are having problems in their relationship.

My feeling is that most relationship problems develop because the male partner has no self-control. This means that even though he wants to stay committed to you, he will waste his time and energy masturbating – sometimes as much as 10 times a week. This means less intimacy for his wife, and his own personal embarrassment at behaving like a little boy instead of a grown man.

This creates a dynamic where the wife begins to resent her husband, and the husband starts to take her for granted and blames her for his own lack of self-control. Male chastity fixes this problem. By making it impossible for him to masturbate or have an affair, intimacy and honesty are brought back into the marriage.

Many people are curious about the male chastity lifestyle, but are put off at first because they don’t understand exactly how it works. Therefore, I’d like to take some time to go over the basics of male chastity. Obviously I can’t cover everything here; but this should give you enough information for you to decide if you want to learn more about how this wonderful lifestyle can improve your marriage.

When you enter into male chastity, you’ll have to purchase a male chastity cage or tube for your husband. This will prevent him from being able to get an erection or achieve orgasm. He will also have to sit down to urinate.

Then, he will be required to earn the right to have you unlock him when you feel that he deserves masculine release. During the period that he is wearing the belt, he will have to do things to please you in order to earn this right.

In other words, he’ll have to find ways to satisfy you sexually – without his penis. This can lead to hours of oral sex and multiple orgasms for you. He’ll also have to help out more around the house and become more romantic.

He’ll gladly agree to all of this because what men want most on this earth is the right to orgasm. Initially you will probably only have him locked up for a few days at a time. Later you’ll have him locked up for a week or more.

Eventually, the ideal situation is that he achieves 12 or less orgasms a year – meaning you’ll let him out to play once every four to six weeks.

This will stop his masturbation habit, keep him from looking at porn and ensure that he remains faithful to you. But, he will benefit as well. He will be constantly turned on and when you do let him out, he’ll have the best orgasms of his life.

You, on the other hand, will feel like princess. Remember how you felt during your initial courtship? That’s the man who will suddenly come back into your life.

Of course, it will take effort on your part. It’s not simply a matter of locking him up. You’ll have to be very affectionate with him so that he feels loved and wanted. You’ll need to praise him when he does a good job. And, you’ll probably have to clean the family jewels for him – otherwise, he’d take that chance of freedom to masturbate.

But all this effort will be worth it when you see the direct benefits to your marriage and over time, your husband will be delighted that you took the active role to keep him under lock and key.

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